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A passport is one of the most vital
personal documents you can own. It’s not only a gateway to international travel
but also a form of official identification that can be invaluable in various
scenarios. Misplacing it can lead to stressful situations, missed
opportunities, and even legal complications. Here are some reasons why you
should always know where your passport is.
Essential for Travel Plans
Your passport is your ticket to the world.
Whether it’s a last-minute business trip, a spontaneous
vacation, or an urgent family matter overseas, having your passport readily
available is crucial. Misplacing it can lead to delays, extra expenses for
expedited processing, or even the cancellation of your plans. By knowing its
exact location, you can avoid the unnecessary hassle and ensure you’re always
prepared for unexpected travel opportunities.
Vital for Emergency Situations
In emergencies, such as needing to leave
the country due to personal, political, or environmental reasons, having your
passport on hand can make all the difference. Emergencies rarely allow for the
luxury of time, and scrambling to locate a misplaced passport during a crisis
can add undue stress. Keeping your passport in a secure but accessible location
ensures you can act quickly when it matters most.
Identification in Critical Circumstances
A passport serves as a universally accepted
form of identification, especially if other forms, like a driver’s license, are
lost or unavailable. It can be used for opening bank accounts, verifying your
identity in legal situations, or proving citizenship. Misplacing your passport
can limit your ability to handle such scenarios efficiently.
Protect Against Identity Theft
A
lost passport is a potential goldmine for identity thieves. Your personal
information can be used fraudulently, leading to financial losses and
reputational damage. If you always know where your passport is, you reduce the
risk of it falling into the wrong hands. Additionally, routinely checking its
location ensures that you’ll notice quickly if it’s been stolen, enabling you
to take immediate action.
Cost and Time of Replacement
Replacing a lost passport is neither cheap
nor quick. The fees for a new passport, combined with any expedited services
required, can quickly add up. The process also involves paperwork,
appointments, and waiting periods, all of which can be inconvenient. Knowing
where your passport is saves you time, money, and frustration. If you do find
yourself in this unfortunate situation, you can apply for expedited passports with
urgentpassport.com, which is a streamlined process.
Facilitates Spontaneous Opportunities
From job interviews to travel contests,
spontaneous opportunities often require a valid passport. Not knowing where it
is can result in missed chances, as some opportunities may require proof of
your ability to travel immediately. Being prepared by keeping your passport
within easy reach allows you to seize the moment.
Peace of Mind
Finally, knowing the location of your
passport offers peace of mind. It eliminates the low-level anxiety of wondering
whether it’s lost or misplaced. By establishing a habit of keeping it in a
designated secure spot, you ensure it’s always there when you need it.
By knowing where it is at all times, you
save yourself from stress, protect your identity, and stay ready for life’s
opportunities. Safeguard your passport, and you’ll safeguard your future.
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Airbnb has quickly become an increasingly competitive space, with numerous listings jostling for attention from both travelers and hosts. Making an unforgettable guest experience is central to success on this platform. But how can you actually do that while maintaining stellar ratings and turning one-time visitors into loyal patrons spreading word of your space? In this blog, we will help you unlock hosting greatness.Photo by Mahrous Houses on Unsplash
Photo by Mahrous Houses on UnsplashThe Power of an Attractive Listing
Your Airbnb listing is often the first impression guests have of your property. Take it as an opportunity to show potential guests just why yours stands out from the competition by crafting an appealing yet informative listing that draws potential guests in.
Headlines That Dazzle
Avoid cliche descriptions like "Cozy Apartment in Downtown." Be specific, unique, and highlight the features that set your property apart, such as "Charming Oceanfront Villa with Private Pool and Sunset Views." These tell visitors exactly what to expect, while making it sound irresistible.
Photos Are Your Best Friend
It is very important that you invest in high-quality photographs. Avoid dim lighting and disorganized rooms by opting for bright, crisp shots with well-staged shots instead. Display each aspect of your space from various angles, be it a hot tub, unique decor pieces or stunning views. Bonus points if lifestyle photos show guests how they can use the space (such as morning coffee on the patio or s'mores around a fire pit).
Being Honest and Transparent
While it can be tempting to oversell your property, honesty should take priority. If your place has particular features like steep stairs or an especially noisy street, be upfront with those details so as to build trust among guests while decreasing the chance of negative reviews from unhappy visitors.
Create an Amazing Guest Experience
An amazing guest experience means more than providing clean beds and wireless Internet. It involves surprising your visitors with thoughtful touches that make their visit even more unforgettable.
Nail the Basics
Your guests shouldn't need to wonder where the coffeemaker is or battle with Wi-Fi access when staying at an Airbnb property. Make their experience easy by offering clear instructions, an effortless check-in process, and providing all essentials such as toiletries, linens, and kitchen necessities. An Airbnb that's well stocked is one that guests enjoy visiting.
Go the Extra Mile
Want your guests to remember you? Small gestures go a long way, such as leaving a welcome note, fresh flowers or a basket with local snacks and guidebooks on the table. Tailor their experience based on where your property is. If near a beach leave sunscreen and towels behind. For mountain properties provide hiking trail information along with hot cocoa supplies.
Being Responsive and Approachable
Communicating is important when it comes to being an outstanding host. Quickly responding to inquiries and addressing issues as soon as they arise will leave guests feeling cared for, which reflects in their reviews.
Set the Mood with Impeccable Ambiance
Have you ever experienced walking into a hotel and immediately feeling relaxed or excited about your stay? That is exactly the feeling you should strive to create when designing and running an Airbnb.
Design Matters
Your property's interior decor reveals its personality. Select a theme that complements both its location and target audience. Scandinavian minimalism, rustic farmhouse or bohemian chic may all work well depending on the target demographics. Small details such as colorful throw pillows, framed artwork or warm lighting can enhance its charm without breaking the bank.
Cleanliness Is King
No traveler wants to find dust bunnies or unsightly stains when visiting your place, which makes keeping it clean a very important factor for travelers and can lead to 5 star reviews vs harsh criticism.
Create Instagram-Worthy Moments
Travelers today love sharing their experiences online, so give them something memorable to post about. An inviting reading nook, stylish bathroom mirror, or stunning outdoor seating area can create unforgettable images, instantly making your property more desirable.
Price Smart (and Fair)
Pricing strategies can make or break your hosting success. Aim to strike a balance between attracting guests and increasing profits to achieve maximum hosting success.
Do Market Research
Carry out research on similar listings in your area to assess their price points and whether you should adjust yours in order to compete more directly against similar amenities provided. Competitive pricing helps drive bookings while offering fair value to guests.
Offer Deals to Fill Gaps
Do you have unoccupied nights this month? Consider offering last-minute discounts or promotions for longer stays. Guests love taking advantage of great offers while you get to avoid leaving your property empty.
Keep Fees Reasonable
High cleaning or service fees can scare off potential guests, so ensure all additional expenses are clearly communicated in your listing. Transparency builds trust among travelers who prioritize budget-conscious accommodation options.
Keep a List of Emergency Services
As a responsible host, being prepared for emergencies is important to providing guests with an enjoyable experience and maintaining safety. Keeping an easily accessible list of emergency contacts and services available at your property will ensure a positive guest experience and can prevent unnecessary inconvenience to guests.
* Emergency Numbers: Include local police, fire department, and medical emergency numbers.
* Local Hospitals and Clinics: Provide the name, address, and contact numbers of nearby medical facilities.
* 24/7 Maintenance Services: List trusted professionals for plumbing, electrical, or other urgent repairs like the AC. Reputable companies like 24 Hour AC Repair can provide reliable and timely services for your guests.
* Closest Pharmacy: Provide details of a nearby pharmacy as well as its operating hours.
Staying safe and reassuring guests during their stay requires having access to information (whether printed or accessible online) on safety measures and emergency details. A simple one pager with these details could make a tremendous difference for them.
Build Your Reputation Brick by Brick
On Airbnb, your reputation is very important. Positive reviews open doors to more bookings, so focus on providing exceptional guest service that strengthens both your listing and guests' experiences.
Ask for Reviews
After your guests check out, be sure to kindly request reviews. It is likely they had a fantastic stay. The more 5-star reviews you gather will increase visibility in Airbnb search rankings.
Learn from Constructive Criticism
Negative reviews shouldn't be taken personally. Use them as an opportunity for improvement and implement changes accordingly while responding professionally.
Become a Superhost
Airbnb recognizes hosts who consistently deliver outstanding experiences by awarding them Superhost status. Achieving this requires excelling in areas like communication, cleanliness, and receiving positive reviews in order to be considered for this prestigious accolade.
Conclusion
Becoming an Airbnb host takes effort, but the rewards can be worth your while. Whether you want to supplement your income or turn it into full-time employment, understanding these important principles will set you up for success and allow you to create listings with confidence. You got this.
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A smile is more than just an expression, it's an international symbol of joy, confidence and connection. A truly healthy smile goes beyond aesthetics to reflect both your oral and physical health and its effect on your wellbeing and perception of yourself in society. So, what exactly does that mean?
It All Starts With Healthy Teeth and Gums
Achieving a beautiful smile starts at its foundation, your teeth and gums. Cavities, gum disease and discoloration aren't simply cosmetic issues, they indicate more serious issues that must be treated. Firm, pink gums indicate that your oral care regimen is working. Strong, clean teeth indicate your dental routine is upholding its role. Brushing, flossing and regular check-ups should all be part of a comprehensive health routine that keeps that superhero smile looking its best.
A Smile That Boosts Confidence
There's a reason so many people associate a beautiful smile with confidence. When your teeth feel good to you, you're more likely to show them off freely and proudly. Smile with confidence, it sets off an irresistible chain reaction of people responding with smiles themselves, making interactions simpler, and creating bonds more easily. But confidence doesn't lie solely with bright, white teeth. It means finding a smile that suits you and feels natural and comfortable no matter the shade or alignment of your teeth. Modern dentistry has provided numerous people with tools for greater confidence through options like teeth whitening, braces, aligners and veneers. But it's important to remember that confidence doesn't depend on perfection, it depends on how it makes you feel. A genuine, confident smile reveals your best self, something others cannot help but notice.
Your Smile Is an Expression of Overall Health
A beautiful smile doesn't just represent its own health, it reveals much about how our overall well-being works. Multiple studies have linked oral health with systemic conditions like heart disease, diabetes and Alzheimer's, with gum disease being an inflammation-inducing issue far beyond your mouth. As such, practicing good oral care shouldn't simply focus on cavities or bad breath prevention but is an investment into overall well-being. With proper diet planning, regular hygiene routines and professional cleanings all playing a big part in protecting the bigger picture of health.
Smiling Is Good for Your Mental Health
Did you know that the act of smiling (even if forced at first) can greatly enhance your mood? Smiling releases endorphins and serotonin, your body's natural feel-good chemicals, making it easier to overcome stress and anxiety. A healthy smile encourages more smiles. Once satisfied with it, sharing it becomes second nature, creating a positive feedback loop for emotional well-being. A smile has long-term effects on how we feel inside as well as how energetic we bring others. A simple act such as smiling can bring immense pleasure both internally as well as externally.
Conclusion
A healthy smile encompasses so much more than its visual appearance. It is the result of strong teeth, healthy gums, proper hygiene habits, balanced nutrition and overall good health. Confidence, comfort and the freedom to express joy freely all come together when we care for our smiles properly, regardless of whether they're straight, slightly crooked, brilliantly white or uniquely your own. Taking good care of it ensures it continues to serve its purpose for as long as possible. After all it is one of your most powerful tools, why let it fade? Get out there and show off that grin and spread some joy.
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"I heard the bells on Christmas Day
Their old familiar carols play
And wild and sweet the words repeat
Of peace on earth, good will to men.
And in despair I bowed my head;
'There is no peace on earth,' I said,
For hate is strong and mocks the song
of peace on earth, good will to men.
Then pealed the bells more loud and deep;
God is not dead, nor doth He sleep;
The wrong shall fail, the right prevail,
With peace on earth, good will to men."
I have shared the story of the beautiful Christmas Carol, I heard the Bells on Christmas Day, in my book, When Light Dawns, and today I wanted to share a bit more of it here on the blog. This beautiful Christmas Carol was written by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow in 1863, and came after a series of personal tragedies occurred in his life.
First, in the early 1860s, an unusual heat wave had struck Massachusetts, which affected Longfellow’s family. This prompted Fanny, his wife, to trim the hair of their 7-year-old daughter to help her feel cooler. Sentimentally, Fanny decided to seal the locks of hair with wax, but tragically, hot wax spilled onto her dress and caught on fire. Henry unsuccessfully tried to extinguish the fire with a blanket, and then tried stopping the fire by throwing himself on his wife, which resulted in his face, arms, and hands being burned. Heart-breakingly, Fanny Longfellow died the following morning from her injuries and was buried 3 days later on their 18th wedding anniversary. Due to his own severe burns, Henry wasn’t able to attend her funeral, but later was recorded as saying a line from his famous hymn, The wrong shall fail, the right prevail.
Shortly after this in 1863, Henry was informed (by letter) that his oldest son joined the Union soldiers during the fight of the American Civil War. In November of 1863, Charles was severely wounded in the Battle of New Hope Church. These two events together, proved to be the foundation for Henry’s famous poem Christmas Bells, which was later put to music and became a famous Christmas carol.
I am so humbled that this post was originally shared over at Mundane Faithfulness in 2016. You can find the original guest post HERE!
First, in the early 1860s, an unusual heat wave had struck Massachusetts, which affected Longfellow’s family. This prompted Fanny, his wife, to trim the hair of their 7-year-old daughter to help her feel cooler. Sentimentally, Fanny decided to seal the locks of hair with wax, but tragically, hot wax spilled onto her dress and caught on fire. Henry unsuccessfully tried to extinguish the fire with a blanket, and then tried stopping the fire by throwing himself on his wife, which resulted in his face, arms, and hands being burned. Heart-breakingly, Fanny Longfellow died the following morning from her injuries and was buried 3 days later on their 18th wedding anniversary. Due to his own severe burns, Henry wasn’t able to attend her funeral, but later was recorded as saying a line from his famous hymn, The wrong shall fail, the right prevail.
Shortly after this in 1863, Henry was informed (by letter) that his oldest son joined the Union soldiers during the fight of the American Civil War. In November of 1863, Charles was severely wounded in the Battle of New Hope Church. These two events together, proved to be the foundation for Henry’s famous poem Christmas Bells, which was later put to music and became a famous Christmas carol.
The tragedy that Henry Longfellow endured—and so many others walk through—astounds and humbles me. It is a great reminder that a year can be filled with incredible losses and pain as well as joys and triumphs. Unfortunately, the holiday season takes no exception and can sometimes compound the grief that we have experienced.
Sometimes in the midst of pain, I have questioned what I really have to celebrate. Sometimes the pain can make it difficult to get into the holiday mood. Sometimes real life doesn’t allow us to have a Pinterest-worthy Christmas, yet what I am finding in the cracks and crevices of this Christmas season is that there is simple joy and peace to be found at Christmas.
In focusing on Christ and those whom God has placed in my path to embrace with grace and love, I see the hope of what Christmas is all about. In the midst of the incredible divisions in our country, I bow my head and think, as Henry did back in the Civil War era, that there is no peace on earth; yet the bells that echo throughout this season remind me there is much to rejoice in celebrating the birth of Jesus.
My prayer and dream this Christmas is that I will be preparing my heart as much as my home for this holiday season.
My prayer is that I will take the time to stop and love those who are hurting before me, as much as I take the time to decorate my tree.
My dream is that I will be challenged to give gifts not only to those whom I know well, but also to the hurting person who may need the physical reminder of Christ’s tangible love in more ways that I can imagine.
My hope is that the best gift I can give this year is more of God’s love and more of His grace each and everyday.
My wish is to remind those whom I love that the bells are still ringing with God’s grace and truth.
Happy Wednesday friends! I am so excited to share that today and tomorrow there is a HUGE sale happening in the December Caravan Etsy shop! ALL orders will ship ASAP priority mail to help make it in time for last minute gifts! Click HERE to go directly to the shop!
Thank you for all of your support friends throughout this year in our shop!!
There's something magical about stepping into a garden that feels like your own personal paradise. A garden where you can relax, enjoy nature, and forget the rest of the world. The good news? You don't need to be a landscaping expert to create a space like this. With a few simple tweaks and thoughtful additions, you can transform your garden into a haven you'll never want to leave. Here's how to get started.
1. Design and Layout
Start with a Plan
Before picking up a single shovel or plant, take a moment to map it all out. Sketching your garden's layout is like building a blueprint for your dream outdoor space. It allows you to envision what goes where and helps prevent costly or time-consuming mistakes. Want a cozy lounging nook in the corner? Space for a vegetable patch? Maybe a path that curves through flower beds? Planning ahead saves you from the dreaded "trial and error" phase, making the process much smoother and more enjoyable.
Choose a Theme
Every great garden tells a story, and this is where you need to decide what you want yours to say. Picking a theme is like choosing the personality of your outdoor space. If you love a rustic, romantic feel, go for a cottage garden vibe. Prefer clean lines and simplicity? A modern minimalist look might be your style. Dreaming of a lush jungle retreat? Then tropical escape it is! A theme guides your decisions, from plants to décor, and creates a cohesive look you'll be proud of.
Maximize Space
No matter the size of your garden, you can make every inch count. Divide your space into zones tailored to how you want to use it. Imagine one area with comfy chairs and a fire pit for cozy evenings, another corner for an herb or veggie garden, and a dining spot near the grill. Smaller gardens can still shine by combining functions and being clever with your layout. For instance, use vertical spaces for hanging plants or add foldable furniture to keep things flexible.
Pathways and Flow
Nothing transforms a garden quite like pathways. They guide you through the space and give a sense of structure while looking effortlessly charming. You can choose from stepping stones, gravel, or brick, depending on your theme. Want to add a bit of whimsy? Try a curving path that invites exploration. Also, arches covered in climbing plants can frame the way and add a touch of magic. The goal is to create a flow that feels natural, drawing you toward different zones while making your garden feel more connected.
2. Plant Selection
Work with Your Local Climate
Before you get carried away by exotic plants in glossy catalog photos, take a step back and think about your garden's environment. Different plants thrive in different conditions, and choosing options that love your local weather and soil type is a game-changer. If you live in a dry region, go for drought-tolerant plants like lavender or succulents. Got a wetter, cooler area? Then hydrangeas or ferns could be perfect. Knowing what suits your yard's natural conditions makes things easier for you and healthier for your plants. Plus, you'll save time, money, and energy by not fighting against nature.
Mix Colors and Textures
Here's where it gets fun! Mixing colors and textures can turn your outdoor space into a visual masterpiece. Think bold pops of color from flowers like marigolds or petunias paired with the lush greenery of ferns or hostas. Add some soft ground covers like creeping thyme to balance spiky plants like yucca for a striking contrast. Have tall grasses wave gently alongside bushy plants for a dynamic look that keeps the eye moving. The idea is to combine different shapes, tones, and layers to make your garden feel vibrant and alive.
Low-Maintenance Options
Not everyone has hours to spend pruning or deadheading flowers. The good news is you can still have a beautiful garden with low-maintenance plants. Look for sturdy options that practically take care of themselves, like perennials that come back year after year or succulents that only need the occasional sip of water. Shrubs like boxwood or juniper are also great as they require minimal upkeep but still give great structure. Even adding a splash of color with wildflowers can create beauty without the work. A low-maintenance garden means more time to relax and enjoy it, which is the whole point, right
Pollinator-Friendly Picks
Want to breathe life into your garden? Invite some winged friends over! Choosing pollinator-friendly plants not only helps the bees, butterflies, and hummingbirds but also creates a buzzing, lively atmosphere in your backyard. Go for flowers like coneflowers, milkweed, or salvia, as they're pollinator magnets. Plus, these plants often grow easily and add bursts of bright colors. The bonus? Supporting pollinators is a simple way to contribute to the environment right from your backyard. It's a win-win for you and the planet.
3. Entertainment Features
Build an Outdoor Kitchen
Imagine cooking your favorite meal under the open sky. An outdoor kitchen is a perfect way to spruce up your garden gatherings. Start small with a BBQ grill or portable pizza oven, and see how it transforms the vibe of your space. If you're feeling ambitious, add some simple countertops for prepping food or a mini fridge to keep your drinks cold. The beauty of an outdoor kitchen is that it makes entertaining seamless you can cook and mingle all at once. Plus, who doesn't love the flair of alfresco dining? A table set up nearby completes the picture, letting you enjoy fresh air and great food with friends and family.
Add a Fire Pit
A fire pit is a game changer, instantly making your garden an evening hotspot. Picture yourself gathered around the warm glow with your loved ones, toasting marshmallows or exchanging stories. It's not just about the heat. It's about the cozy atmosphere it creates. Fire pits come in all shapes and sizes, so whether you build a permanent one with bricks or grab a portable model, it's easy to fit one into any garden design. Add a few comfy chairs and maybe a throw blanket or two, and you've got a space that will quickly become everyone's favorite hangout spot.
Install Water Features
Whether it's a bubbling fountain, a peaceful pond, or even a small birdbath, water features bring an unmatched sense of tranquility to your garden. They're not just about looks; they also invite birds and wildlife, which add life and charm to your space. You don't need anything fancy. Small, budget-friendly options can still make a huge difference. Place your water feature near a seating area so you can enjoy its calming effects during your downtime.
Music System
A great playlist can make your garden feel even more inviting. Outdoor waterproof speakers are an easy way to create the perfect ambiance. Whether you're hosting a lively barbecue or unwinding with a quiet evening tea, music sets the mood. Choose subtle speakers that blend into the garden's design, and some even come disguised as rocks! You can sync them with your phone or smart home system for fuss-free control. Soft instrumental tunes? Relaxing nature sounds? Or maybe a playlist of your favorite old-school hits? The choice is yours, but one thing's certain. It'll keep everyone coming back to your garden for more.
4. Keeping Your Garden Pest-Free
Inspect Regularly
The best way to keep pests from taking over your garden is to catch them early. Make it a habit to inspect your garden regularly. You could maybe do it during your morning coffee stroll or while watering your plants. Check under leaves for signs of chewed foliage, or notice if any plants look a little too droopy. Spotting issues early can save you a ton of trouble later. Think of it like giving your garden a mini check-up. A little attention now can prevent a full-blown pest party later.
Natural Pest Control
Sometimes, nature can handle pests for you, you just have to give it a little help. Attract beneficial insects like ladybugs and praying mantises to your garden. These guys love munching on the pests that harm your plants. Also, planting flowers such as marigolds or dill can invite these natural helpers. Neem oil is another great option for keeping creepy crawlies at bay. It's safe for plants and pets but sends pests packing. Natural solutions not only work but are also kind to the environment so it’s a win-win.
Dealing with Larger Pests
Bugs aren't the only uninvited guests in your garden. Squirrels, raccoons, or even deer might wander in and help themselves to your plants. A fence is always a good starting point; just make sure it's tall and sturdy enough to keep out these determined visitors. For smaller areas, covers or nets can protect specific plants. Motion-activated sprinklers or lights can also scare away critters without causing them harm. The key is figuring out what works best for your particular visitors and garden layout.
Snake Repellent
Snakes might be great for keeping rodents in check, but they're usually not welcome in most gardens. There are simple ways to keep these slithering guests out of sight. Snake Repellent is an effective option and easy to use as you just apply them near garden boundaries. You can also plant certain snake-deterring greenery like marigolds or lemongrass. And remember, snakes hate tidy spaces, so keeping your garden clean and uncluttered reduces their hiding spots and makes your garden far less inviting to them.
Creating a garden you never want to leave is all about blending smart planning, the right plants, and thoughtful features that fit your lifestyle. With a well-laid-out design, beautiful greenery, spots for relaxation and entertainment, and a pest-free environment, your garden becomes more than just a backyard. It's your personal retreat. Start small or go big, but remember, the best gardens are the ones that reflect you. Now, grab those gloves and bring your dream garden to life!
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I am so excited to share about an exciting blog collaboration that Caravan Sonnet will be doing in the next couple of months! I am so honored to be partnering again with Viking Cruises on a River Cruise and I can't wait to share more with y'all in the next several weeks! It was an absolute dream to work with Viking back in 2017/2018 (you can read all of the adventures HERE)! Our Rhine River Cruise was a dream that we often talk about with such fondness!
I am overjoyed to partner with them again and to a location that I have never been! It is a dream to work with Viking again and it feels surreal!
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I wanted to share with y'all today because through December 31st Viking is having a sale on certain cruises and offering some incredible deals!! You can find out more about the cruises that this includes on their website HERE!
I hope y'all have a wonderful Tuesday!! Thank you so much for your excitement about this upcoming collaboration!
All of the pictures above are from our Rhine River Cruise!
*update- December 12, 2024*
Happy Thursday friends! For today's Thursday Health Thoughts Post I wanted to re-share a post that was originally written here on the blog in 2013 about 30 Christmas Present Ideas for a Chronically Ill Friend. While this post was written in the midst of my personal fight for health and physical life, I have found myself revisiting the wisdom of this for every single day now on the other side being healthy and loving on those who are struggling with a chronic illness. I hope it is a practical encouragement to you for those you love in your life who have a chronic illness.
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If you are looking for an in depth guide and encouragement on specific things to do this holiday season my easy to read e-book, 12 Things to Do: For Yourself, A Loved One, A Spouse, The Parents, The Children, and The Caretakers Dealing With Chronic Health Conditions During the Holiday Season (Chronic Grace Series Book 2) can be helpful! You can find it on Amazon HERE!
Since 2013 I have also added a lot of additional posts to the holiday seasons and helping friends... if you would like to check them out you can click on the links below:
Thanksgiving: // 15 Ways to Help a Friend at Thanksgiving //
I hope you find all of those items helpful! Here is the original post with a few minor updates below! Happy Thursday friends!
*Original Post- November 21, 2013 (with updates)*
Last week's Thursday Health Thoughts post was about 17 ways you can help a chronically ill friend with chronic illness during the holidays. As I mentioned last week I want to share 30 Christmas Present ideas for a chronically ill friend. Some of these ideas you may have seen before in the 26 ways to help a Chronically Ill friend. Again, I am not an expert at all, but the things that I have listed below are things that friends have mentioned to me that have been wonderful or I personally experienced during my health journey that truly touched my heart and my life. Be creative and trust me your kindness will touch the heart of your ill friend forever.
1. Offer monetary help if possible.
Even with insurance those with Chronic Illness spend thousands and thousands of dollars trying to get healthy. Many people with Chronic Illness, go through all available resources. I was the recipient of monetary help and one week was even offered a plane ticket to see a dear friends wedding. Without this type of help I could never have gone to the wedding or have received treatment in California. These types of gifts do not have to be large either. Someone gave me a five dollar gift card to Target on regular basis that helped purchase necessities. Such a blessing! Gift cards to Target are priceless! This can help purchase medications, groceries, clothes, and the list goes on! Truly gift cards are wonderful if that is an option for you to give!
Even with insurance those with Chronic Illness spend thousands and thousands of dollars trying to get healthy. Many people with Chronic Illness, go through all available resources. I was the recipient of monetary help and one week was even offered a plane ticket to see a dear friends wedding. Without this type of help I could never have gone to the wedding or have received treatment in California. These types of gifts do not have to be large either. Someone gave me a five dollar gift card to Target on regular basis that helped purchase necessities. Such a blessing! Gift cards to Target are priceless! This can help purchase medications, groceries, clothes, and the list goes on! Truly gift cards are wonderful if that is an option for you to give!
2. Purchase their favorite bath items.
Many with Chronic illness use special bath products (including shampoo, conditioner, soap, lotion, perfume, deodorant, etc.) that are free from certain dyes, chemicals, or ingredients. Yes, these items are more expensive but are necessary. What a lovely gift this would be for someone! Don't know what they use? Ask them or a family member!
Many with Chronic illness use special bath products (including shampoo, conditioner, soap, lotion, perfume, deodorant, etc.) that are free from certain dyes, chemicals, or ingredients. Yes, these items are more expensive but are necessary. What a lovely gift this would be for someone! Don't know what they use? Ask them or a family member!
3. Pay their Cell Phone Bill for a month.
Most with chronic illness desperately need our cell phones and that yucky bill each month takes out a huge amount of money. One time in the journey for me someone paid this and it came at the exact right time that I was having to decide on paying the cell phone or purchasing a medication I needed.
Most with chronic illness desperately need our cell phones and that yucky bill each month takes out a huge amount of money. One time in the journey for me someone paid this and it came at the exact right time that I was having to decide on paying the cell phone or purchasing a medication I needed.
4. Purchase a gift certificate to a special salon.
As a lady who loved getting her nails done each month, having regular hair appointments, etc. this was been a HUGE change while I am ill. These were the first things to go so that items needed for treatment and paying medical bills, etc. comes first. But honestly (I will say it for your friends who don't feel like they can!) I was still a gal who loved being a lady and I missed "feeling" like that all the time and I heard countless others say the same thing.
As a lady who loved getting her nails done each month, having regular hair appointments, etc. this was been a HUGE change while I am ill. These were the first things to go so that items needed for treatment and paying medical bills, etc. comes first. But honestly (I will say it for your friends who don't feel like they can!) I was still a gal who loved being a lady and I missed "feeling" like that all the time and I heard countless others say the same thing.
5. Listen without offering advice (unless asked).
When you offer unsolicited advice, it can come across as a lecture- even if that is not your intent. Someone once said: "Assume that we have heard all of the tips on living healthier and leave it at that." I couldn't have said it any better.
When you offer unsolicited advice, it can come across as a lecture- even if that is not your intent. Someone once said: "Assume that we have heard all of the tips on living healthier and leave it at that." I couldn't have said it any better.
6. Provide a special basket for a "night in".
Gather a few items together to give to those who can't go out- Perhaps a snack, movie, etc. could provide a lovely gift!
Gather a few items together to give to those who can't go out- Perhaps a snack, movie, etc. could provide a lovely gift!
7. Give a coupon book/ card that lists out something that you (and your family) will do once a month, once a week, etc. for a year.
Need suggestions? Here are just a few things that immediately come to mind:
Need suggestions? Here are just a few things that immediately come to mind:
(a) Help with housework.
(b) Help with yard work.
(c) Drive your friend to a doctors appointment or treatment (and offer to stay with them). I heard of a friend whose best friend drove her to every single doctors appointment in one area of her physical needs. That allows her spouse and other family members to have a "day off" of one doctor.
(d) Drive their children to school one day a week.
(e) Bring a meal twice a month.
(f) Pick up groceries once a week.
(g) Offer to go to Target, Walmart, etc. once a week or twice a month for them.
I could go on and on but y'all are creative!
8. Buy nice pajamas.
Those with Chronic Illness spend a lot of time in bed or in the hospital and nice pajamas are always a lovely gift.
Those with Chronic Illness spend a lot of time in bed or in the hospital and nice pajamas are always a lovely gift.
9. Magazine subscriptions are a lovely gift!
This again is a thing that gets cut when money is tight and is a lovely gift for a year!
This again is a thing that gets cut when money is tight and is a lovely gift for a year!
10. Purchase a netflix or hulu account for a year for your friend.
11. Buy a "prime" membership on amazon.
This can provide your friend with countless free TV shows, movies, and even books to read! And guess what? If they purchase supplements or products on amazon they will be eligible on FREE 2-day shipping! Someone gave me this gift for a year in the journey and it was wonderful!
This can provide your friend with countless free TV shows, movies, and even books to read! And guess what? If they purchase supplements or products on amazon they will be eligible on FREE 2-day shipping! Someone gave me this gift for a year in the journey and it was wonderful!
12. Create a relaxing atmosphere.
Purchase music, i-tunes gift cards, etc. so that your friend can listen to relaxing & encouraging music.
Purchase music, i-tunes gift cards, etc. so that your friend can listen to relaxing & encouraging music.
13. Ask them what the best books are on their illness and then read them.
Tell them that you have spent the time doing this and believe me this is PRICELESS. You will be able to have an intelligent and compassionate conversation from that moment forward since you will be knowledgeable about their illness. (Side Note: Read what they suggest not what "Dr. Google" says...)
Tell them that you have spent the time doing this and believe me this is PRICELESS. You will be able to have an intelligent and compassionate conversation from that moment forward since you will be knowledgeable about their illness. (Side Note: Read what they suggest not what "Dr. Google" says...)
14. Introduce a hobby or supplement their existing hobby.
Does your friend do a hobby that helps them pass the time or that they enjoy? Purchase items that they have been wanting or give them a gift card to their favorite specialty craft store. Do they not have a hobby but have been talking about starting one? Buy the intro book, the intro supplies, and give them the gift of creativity! Or try sudoko, word searches, etc!
Does your friend do a hobby that helps them pass the time or that they enjoy? Purchase items that they have been wanting or give them a gift card to their favorite specialty craft store. Do they not have a hobby but have been talking about starting one? Buy the intro book, the intro supplies, and give them the gift of creativity! Or try sudoko, word searches, etc!
15. Give the gift or reading.
Is there something that your friend loves to read? Buy them the books. Does your friend have an illness that makes reading hard? Give them audio books! Don't know what to give them? Purchase a gift card to a bookstore or a kindle gift card. Maybe even purchase a kindle...
Is there something that your friend loves to read? Buy them the books. Does your friend have an illness that makes reading hard? Give them audio books! Don't know what to give them? Purchase a gift card to a bookstore or a kindle gift card. Maybe even purchase a kindle...
16. Soft, Snugly, and Comfy blankets.
I love cozy blankets and when I was sick and the pain was intense cozy blankets were a gift. Soft blankets, comfy sheets, and sweet throws- all lovely. One year I was the recipient of a beautiful prayer quilt. Every time that I looked at it and used it I was reminded that there were SO many people praying for me.
I love cozy blankets and when I was sick and the pain was intense cozy blankets were a gift. Soft blankets, comfy sheets, and sweet throws- all lovely. One year I was the recipient of a beautiful prayer quilt. Every time that I looked at it and used it I was reminded that there were SO many people praying for me.
17. Research and Purchase a Gadget that can help them with a disability.
You have heard me say this before but money is tight and lots of times gadgets are not purchased. Don't know what is needed? Ask them or their family members!
You have heard me say this before but money is tight and lots of times gadgets are not purchased. Don't know what is needed? Ask them or their family members!
18. Gift Baskets.
This article: 10 top gift basket ideas for those suffering with Chronic Illness has wonderful ideas. Don't know what to get? Consider purchasing a Well Basket.
This article: 10 top gift basket ideas for those suffering with Chronic Illness has wonderful ideas. Don't know what to get? Consider purchasing a Well Basket.
19. Journals.
While not everyone is a writer, some of us go through journalsyearly monthly weekly. *smiles* OOh... and pretty pens... hahaha that last one is just for me!
While not everyone is a writer, some of us go through journals
20. Gas Gift Cards.
I can't even begin to express how much money I spent on gas money each week driving to all of my local doctors appointments and this doesn't even begin to account for the ones that weren't local. Gas gift cards are a wonderful gift.
I can't even begin to express how much money I spent on gas money each week driving to all of my local doctors appointments and this doesn't even begin to account for the ones that weren't local. Gas gift cards are a wonderful gift.
21. Purchase supplements, oils, etc.
Is your friend using alternative supplements? These are often expensive and this would be a wonderful gift. Disclaimer: only purchase what your friend is currently using. This is not the time to give advice on what you believe would be the cure!
Is your friend using alternative supplements? These are often expensive and this would be a wonderful gift. Disclaimer: only purchase what your friend is currently using. This is not the time to give advice on what you believe would be the cure!
22. Donate to an organization that supports research for their disease.
23. Mind the car.
Along with #20 - a car gets lots of use. Take the car for a "spa day" and get the oil changed, washed, filled up with gas, and tuned up. This would be an AMAZING gift! Better yet, have someone do an entire tune up!
Along with #20 - a car gets lots of use. Take the car for a "spa day" and get the oil changed, washed, filled up with gas, and tuned up. This would be an AMAZING gift! Better yet, have someone do an entire tune up!
24. Hold a benefit concert, run, walk, etc. for them.
25. Bath Spa- Hot tub.
Yes, hot tubs are expensive but Amazon sells Bath Spa Mats with so many different options. This would be such a lovely gift! Along with this idea: special heating pads, massage heating pads, etc.
Yes, hot tubs are expensive but Amazon sells Bath Spa Mats with so many different options. This would be such a lovely gift! Along with this idea: special heating pads, massage heating pads, etc.
26. Winter items.
Do y'all live in an area where winter rears its ugly head? Consider purchasing a can of spray defroster so that they do not have to scrape their car, hiring someone to shovel for them, or maybe gloves, warm scarves, etc.!
Do y'all live in an area where winter rears its ugly head? Consider purchasing a can of spray defroster so that they do not have to scrape their car, hiring someone to shovel for them, or maybe gloves, warm scarves, etc.!
27. Tickets to live performances for a year.
Does your friend love musicals or comedies or acting? Consider purchasing four or five tickets for them and a friend/spouse to go to these events every couple of months.
28. Homemade Inspirational Artwork.
Create artwork that can be displayed- especially for those who are bedridden.
29. Be Present.
I have said this before, but the best gift that you can give is yourself.
30. Remember the caregiver(s).
I often said this during my journey but being ill is often harder on my family then it was on myself. To see people that are constantly hurting and suffering and not be able to do anything about it is excruciating. Reach out to the caregivers and you will touch the heart of the person who is ill too.
As I said last week, realize that your friend or family member with chronic illness is the best gift this season. Their illness is forcing them to set limitations but the gift to you is remembering what is truly important in the holiday season. Celebrate PEOPLE. Not things or activities. At the end of the day people are the most important thing not whether or not you were able to buy every single gift in the world.
What are some of your Christmas gift ideas for those in your life who are ill? Please share with us in the comments below!
Does your friend love musicals or comedies or acting? Consider purchasing four or five tickets for them and a friend/spouse to go to these events every couple of months.
28. Homemade Inspirational Artwork.
Create artwork that can be displayed- especially for those who are bedridden.
29. Be Present.
I have said this before, but the best gift that you can give is yourself.
30. Remember the caregiver(s).
I often said this during my journey but being ill is often harder on my family then it was on myself. To see people that are constantly hurting and suffering and not be able to do anything about it is excruciating. Reach out to the caregivers and you will touch the heart of the person who is ill too.
As I said last week, realize that your friend or family member with chronic illness is the best gift this season. Their illness is forcing them to set limitations but the gift to you is remembering what is truly important in the holiday season. Celebrate PEOPLE. Not things or activities. At the end of the day people are the most important thing not whether or not you were able to buy every single gift in the world.
What are some of your Christmas gift ideas for those in your life who are ill? Please share with us in the comments below!
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